Tuesday, January 19th, 2021

If you felt radiant, striking and irresistible how would your life be different?

radiantClose your eyes and IMAGINE… You’re walking into a room full of people. The hum of the room silences and all eyes are on you as you make your way to the front. You are the centre of attention. You might be the guest speaker, mother-of- the-bride, a political candidate, your company’s spokesperson, a special guest or you’re late and have to go to the front of the room to claim your seat.

Why you’re there isn’t important. What’s important is how you feel. You walk with poise, straight and tall. You are striking, radiant and irresistible – you exude confidence and you feel strong and powerful.

Just take a minute and imagine how this would feel.

How you look impacts how you feel and how you feel impacts everything. It’s cyclical. This is what I mean: If you look better you feel better, when you feel better you’re more outgoing and when you’re outgoing people gravitate to you, you get more opportunities and you take more action. Taking action gets you better results, which makes you feel good and the cycle continues. The opposite is true if you don’t feel good about how you look. This is how it goes: You don’t like how you look, you feel down, you lack motivation and you let opportunities slide by, which leads to disappointment. The disappointment makes you not take care of yourself and the cycle continues.

Which path are you taking?

If you felt radiant, striking and irresistible how would your life be different? How would it show up in your relationships, your business, your job, etc.? This isn’t pie in the sky. You can have it too.

All it takes are a few simple changes:

  1. A change in how you Dress will transform how good you feel. For example, when you wear clothes that are just right for you, which means, they look great on you, they are in your best colours and they are in alignment how you want to be seen you feel better instantly. When you look good you feel more confident. However, don’t mistake feeling comfortable in your clothes with being in alignment and having a good image. Many people feel comfortable with how they dress but are not portraying the image they think they are.
  1. A change in how you Move will make a difference in how you feel. If you’re sitting right now, sit up straight and feel the difference it makes. If you’re standing, stand straight. Once you dress well and you feel better you won’t be afraid to be seen and you will stand a little taller. As you change your body language you change how you feel and how others perceive you. This means having more opportunities.
  1. A change in how you Behave makes the impossible, possible. Changing self-defeating behaviours and limiting beliefs have a positive effect on your results and how much joy you have. Taking responsibility for everything that happens in your life will give you a feeling of control and power. It’s this personal power that will give you the confidence to walk into that room radiating confidence and loving it.

Which path have you chosen in the past and which path will you choose in the future? If you want to be a person who loves how they look, loves life and feels empowered there’s nothing stopping you.